Grief & Loss
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There are some obvious sources of grief such as the death of a spouse or close family member and the break up of a marriage. However there are other events that can cause grief that aren’t as obvious to us, such as leaving or losing a job, retirement or life transitions, moving house or moving to a different state or country, and a physical injury (especially if it effects one's life style). Anything that we place value on that we lose in one form or another can cause us to experience grief.
In the case of the death of a loved one, it can often be a busy time, arranging the funeral, talking to family and friends, preparing to talk at the funeral etc. It is often not until after the funeral when everyone goes back to their lives that the reality of the loss of the loved one begins to set in. It can be helpful for people to seek some grief counselling around this time to help process the grief and help to adjust to life.
Physical symptoms may include -
Dry mouth
Lack of energy
Weakness in the muscles
Breathlessness
Shortness of breath
Feeling like nothing is real
Tightness in chest or throat
Hollowness in the stomach
Behaviours may include -
Over or under eating
Preoccupation
Sighing
Sleep disturbances
Social withdrawal
Avoiding reminders of the deceased
Emotional symptoms may include -
Sadness
Anger
Guilt
Anxiety
Loneliness
Fatigue
Helplessness
Shock
Relief
Numbness
Psychological symptoms may include-
Disbelief
Confusion
Adsent Mindedness
Dreams of the deceased